Every relationship has its own unique dynamic. Each person in the relationship brings their own character traits and personal history to the table. Whether or not these two people can form a healthy relationship depends on compatibility, open communication, and willingness to set appropriate boundaries. In the popular novel 50 Shades of Grey, the lack of these elements creates an unhealthy relationship between Christian and Ana.

Take our quiz below to find out which 50 Shades of Grey character best matches your personality. Are you Kate—a compassionate friend who always follows your heart? Or maybe you’re Ana—sweet, but not afraid to assert yourself.

To read more about the relationships in 50 Shades of Grey, read our recent piece: Why Unhealthy Sexual Addictions Hurt Both Men & Women.